Confessional Fridays: Virgin Post

I know I said I’d be doing Freebie Friday and I want to. I hope to continue giving free stuff away, but as I fund Freebie Fridays myself and don’t always have the money to do so, I thought I’d have another kind of Friday – Confessional Fridays. I’ve been thinking about how there are so many things in my life I don’t share with people because I’m embarrassed or ashamed. I try not to keep those things off my blog, but many times they are small things that don’t warrant an entire post, but still define me and bring to light my expectations of myself and others. Right now, as a SAHM, I have all sorts of confessions to make about the state of my house, the state of my daughter’s room, the state of my partnership with Mi.Vida. As a mother who’s suffered a loss I have confessions to make about how I (STILL!) feel when I see pregnant women and completed families. As a mother who hopes to have more children I have confessions about fears and anxieties that still well up inside of me. As a blogger who’s made it to the proverbial “other side” I have confessions about guilty and confusion and desperate questions of “why me and not them?” I have tons of confessions to make, and when I become a working mom I’m sure I’ll have even more. So today marks the virgin “Confessional Fridays” post. Here goes…

~ I have changed the sheets on my bed exactly two times since my daughter was born. She just turned 5 months old and has spit up and had diapers leak in that bed over a dozen times. You can do the math.

~ I never clean my shower until it starts to get pink around the edges.

~ There are days I don’t eat a single fruit of vegetable. Many days. Even when pregnant and while breastfeeding. I am so ashamed of that.

~ My daughter has started crying for 1+ hours at a time at night and I HAVE NO IDEA WHAT TO DO ABOUT IT. It’s tearing me up inside. PS I LOATHE the Daylight Saving Time change (though I adore Daylight Saving Time – I think we should get rid of Standard time, frankly).

~ Right now I would rather sleep than have sex. (And not just right now, at this very moment, but “right now” in a more general, since-my-daughter-was-born-and-actually-even-before-when-I-was-pregnant, sense.

~ I sometimes feel jealousy towards other bloggers. (More on this next week).

~ I love trashy reality television (and I know that Khourt.ney Kar.dash.ian’s son is named Ma.son). The more pointless drama the better.

I guess that is good enough for the first Confessional Fridays post. I already have so many great confessions ready to go, starting with a real doozy next Friday. Stay tuned…

5 responses

  1. I love love LOVE this!!!!
    -I feel the same jealousy when I see pregnant woman.
    -The same with me and sex. Actually, I’ve never had a drive and we haven’t done it since she was conceived. a year ago basically 😦
    -same thing with my shower and reality tv
    -same with my sheets. I swear. We are gross.

  2. Oh gosh, when Hubby and I were both working, I swear I had only cleaned our shower twice in the 2 1/2 years we had lived in the house. And our sheets were only washed when they smelled like they were going to crawl down to the basement and put themselves in the washer.
    When you are overwhelmed, whether it’s with work or baby or whatever, your housekeeping does take a backseat. You gotta do what you gotta do, and sometimes those chores are just last on the list. And that’s okay :).
    Looking forward to next Friday’s (really curious now!)…

  3. We have two bathrooms and I use one and husband uses the other. I just assumed he was cleaning his tub. Um no. Let’s just say we will need to gut that one before we sell our house!

  4. I am the worst sheet-changer. I just suck at it because that means more laundry, and I HATE laundry….
    I wish I had some tips on the sleep thing – it could be teething, it could be her just being a pain in your ass, it would be so much easier if hey could just TELL YOU! LOL Hang in there, you’re doing great.
    and, i am also a bad bathroom cleaner.
    G is 19m old, and oh, about a month ago I decided it woudl be nice to have sex again on a regular basis. I was too stinking tired for a long long time to even care about sex. I blogged ALOT about that!
    and, i am excited to read the blogger jealousy post, because I so have that too.

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